Take a Personal Retreat (Part 2)

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A good average time frame for a personal retreat is about two to three days. Spending at least one night away allows you to settle in and get started, then sleep on what you have accomplished. You can then awake refreshed and ready to go farther and dig deeper. Three days and two nights is optimal, affording you a block of time that allows for unhurried prayer, thorough study, quiet meditation, sufficient rest, and even some refreshing exercise.  How often one retreats varies by personal preference, but consider going two to four times a year.

The right environment makes a personal retreat especially productive. Neither the church nor home works well for this. There are too many interruptions and distractions. If someone in your congregation offers you the use of a second house, a cabin, an apartment, or other vacant residence, consider yourself blessed! If you live near a Christian camp or retreat center, there may be a room there that you can use. There are ministries around the country that provide retreat accommodations for people in ministry, often with very economical rates, some even at no cost. It is preferable to have no television or even Internet service. Control the access people have to you by having your secretary or your wife take messages and notify you of emergencies. Look and pray for some unique, out of the way place where you can meet with the Lord.

There are several different goals a pastor may have for his personal retreat. They may include long range planning for the church, personal spiritual renewal, seeking direction for a specific decision or problem, and others. As you begin your retreat, write out your specific goals. This will help you to plan your schedule.

One very profitable goal for a personal retreat is extensive studying and planning for preaching. If this is your goal, spend significant time praying for the Lord to lead you to the passages He wants you to preach from and the subjects you should emphasize in your preaching ministry.  Then do background study, gain general knowledge about the book or section of scripture you will be preaching from, and begin “spadework” in some of the passages. You can plan your sermon texts and topics for months in advance. Circumstances later may require you to adjust, but it is better to have to change your plan than to have no plan at all.

There are two different kinds of schedules that I have followed on a personal retreat. One is very structured, with blocks of time for prayer, meditation, study, and even meals, rest, and exercise. I put a copy of the schedule where I can refer to it and pace my work accordingly. That way I accomplish my goals and avoid wasting time on distractions.

The other approach one can use is to not have a schedule. Begin praying and meditating on Scripture, and let God speak. As you find yourself concentrating on certain passages, begin digging into them. As you are drawn to certain truths, pursue them. Open your heart to the personal ministry of the Holy Spirit to you. Meet with God!

You will want to have all the necessary materials with you for a profitable time away. Your retreat checklist should include your Bible, key reference books you often use, commentaries on passages you may be studying, computer, pads, pens, highlighters, paper clips and sticky notes (for keeping notes organized), and your personal journal. Don’t forget to take some good coffee (or other favorite drink that helps you think!)

The idea of a personal retreat may seem like a luxury. Some may wonder how it is possible to fit it into their already crammed calendar. Pastors who are conscientious about their use of time and money may feel guilty. Who can justify the expense of going away in order to be alone? The truth is, if you schedule a block of time for intense prayer, study, and planning, you are making an investment that will prove extremely productive later. You will be spiritually and mentally invigorated. There will be noticeable purpose, precision, depth, and passion in your preaching. Rather than feeling like you are behind in your study each week, you will be encouraged by knowing that you have already done significant preliminary work. You will have the confidence that comes from really praying for God’s direction for your preaching ministry and responding to the Holy Spirit’s leading.  Take a personal retreat. Your heart will be filled and your people will be blessed.

Take a Personal Retreat (Part 1)

Since I am not preaching at Calvary March 8 and 15th, I am posting an article in two parts that discusses a practice of mine related to my ministry of the Word.  I take a personal prayer and planning retreat 3-4 times a year.  It is one of the best things I do for my ministry.  I hope that our church family and anyone in ministry will benefit from reading this article I wrote.  It was published in Today’s Christian Preacher a couple of years ago.   Part 2 will be posted next week.

It is better to be proactive than reactive in dealing with busyness, stress, and exhaustion.  Rather than waiting until symptoms of burnout surface in his life, a wise man in ministry will implement practices that will enable him to grow and thrive while bearing the heavy burdens of pastoral responsibility.  One of the best ways a pastor can enjoy deep and sweet fellowship with God and maintain a strong, rich preaching ministry is to regularly take a personal retreat.  A time away for prayer, study, and planning can produce renewed energy, a refreshed spirit, and fruitful study that will significantly strengthen a pastor’s personal life and public ministry.

There are some scriptural reasons for taking a retreat like this.  Jesus set the example.  Mark 1:35 records of Jesus Christ that, “. . . in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed.”  He did this after expending physical and spiritual energy in preaching and in ministering to the needs of individual people.  Jesus regularly retreated for the express purpose of prayer (Mark 6:46; Matthew 14:23; Luke 6:12; Luke 22:39-42).  He encouraged His disciples to “Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat” (Mark 6:31).  The apostles established priorities for preachers of all time when they said, “It is not reason that we should leave the word of God, and serve tables . . . But we will give ourselves continually to prayer, and to the ministry of the word” (Acts 6:2,4).  Both our Master and the first church leaders drew away from the busyness of ministry activity in order to devote themselves to prayer and preparation for preaching.

There are also practical reasons for having a personal retreat.  It is nearly impossible to give sustained attention to prayer and study in the midst of a regular schedule.  Routine tasks, pressing projects, and the endless needs of people demand your time and concentration.  Even when you steal away to pray you must often get up from your knees before you are truly finished communing with your Lord.  You may shut the door of your office to study, but there are a hundred distractions around you.  You often close your Bible and put your notes away knowing that another hour or two of continued study might have yielded clearer understanding of the text and enabled you to capture its meaning in words potent for preaching.  When you retreat for several days, you can indulge your passion for prayer and appetite for study.  Not having a tight schedule frees you to enjoy the adventure of investigating the eternal truths of God’s Word.   You can go much deeper and farther than you are able within the confines of your daily routine.

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Speaking of God

Our family talks a lot at meals. Sometimes we even talk to each other.

I like to watch and listen as the conversation jumps from one topic to another and as three conversations happen all at once. One of my girls sometimes carries on a conversation with herself.

Occasionally I attempt to get a word in. My comment or story often has nothing to do with the current subject(s). I just want to say what’s on my mind. So if, for example, I want to share our puppy’s latest entertaining antic, I’ll interject, “Speaking of the dog…” Someone will almost always observe, “We weren’t talking about the dog,” which is my cue to point out, “We are now!” and tell my Hobo story.

In a similar way, I want to get a word in and share my stories – about God. What I post here will be my way to join (interrupt) the conversation and convey what is on my mind about the magnificence of God, the wonders of Jesus Christ, His gifts to us, and our life in Him.

The primary discussion circle is our church family, but others are welcome. The content will be directly related to the Old and New Testament Scriptures, and usually associated with texts I am currently preaching. It will occasionally include other ideas and issues catching my attention or gripping my heart. There will be links and resources that will help you further explore and contemplate what we talk about in Sunday’s sermons. Various thought, discussion, and application facilitators will be added as we develop the site.

If you want to join the conversation, comments are welcome. Your interaction with others is a form of fellowship. Enjoy sharing the blessings of the Word with one another. All of the biblical precepts for constructive and gracious communication apply. I may jump in occasionally.

So, “blah, blah, blah… yada, yada, yada… didja hear… didja know… what’s up with that… type… text… talk… twitter…”

(Ahem) Speaking of God…

“We weren’t talking about God.”

We are now!