Abandoned by God?

Listen to the entire message here.

The following is an excerpt.

My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?

why are you so far from helping me, and from the words of my groaning?

Psalm 22:1

 

This man felt that God had abandoned him.  He had prayed for God to help him, but it seemed that God was so far from helping him.  But it seemed that God was so far from helping him.  “Why aren’t You helping me?  Why aren’t You rescuing me? Why aren’t You changing things?”  He says, O my God, I cry in the daytime, but you hear not; and in the night season, and am not silent.” He says, “I am persistent in my prayer, I am passionate in my prayer, I groan, I cry, I call out day and night.  I know in my head that God answers prayer.”

He had seen it on the bumper sticker of his neighbor’s ox cart.  It was right there on the wall of his friend’s house in cross-stitch – ‘God answers prayer!’  We do the same thing, “God, I’m praying!  There’s no answer.  Would you just at least let me know that you are listening?  Give me some indication.  I’d like to know that an answer is coming, that help is on the way.”

But God is silent.  That is hard, isn’t it?  We feel that we can’t bear it; we want to overcome it; we desire to get through it.  We want to please God in it and we are calling out to God for help but it just doesn’t seem to be there.  Nothing changes, no one answers.

Now what?  Some people respond this way.  “God has abandoned me, so I just give up.  I just can’t go on.”  They drop out, drift away.  “I just don’t have the heart to carry on, I can’t pull myself together enough to go forward.”

Some people respond, “God has abandoned me, so I’ll just quit.  I’ve served, I’ve been faithful, I’ve witnessed and this is how He is treating me?  Fine, I quit.”

Another response is, “God has abandoned me, so I’m finished with Him.  I’ll show God!  I’ll go do what I want.  Goodbye church, goodbye Christian life.  I’ve been wanting to try some of this stuff anyway.

But, when someone who is a believer thinks like that, there is something, a voice, an awareness that sounds and speaks through all of that confusion and discouragement.

Let me try to illustrate it this way.  Let’s say you are in your car driving down the road and you want to listen to some music and you turn on the radio and push “seek” because you are looking for something to listen to – something light that you can enjoy.  After hitting the button a few times, you land on a classical music station.  Something catches your ear.  There is a pleasant sound.  There is an enjoyable harmony and melody playing and it attracts you, so you stay there.  Pretty soon you are getting caught up in it.  There is a little bounce to it and you start looking around to make sure no one is looking and you start directing the music.  It just feels good; there is something about it that lifts you up.  Then as classical music sometimes does, it enters a part of the song where things change.  It’s like the instruments go off in their own directions.  Pretty soon it sounds like the instruments and the sounds they are making are fighting against each other.  It becomes dissonant.  It clashes and there is conflict.  It produces unrest and you reach for the button ready to move on.  Then, all of a sudden, something else comes through.  You almost feel it before you hear it.  Those huge, massive, deep basses begin with it, then the mellow cellos pick it up and the rich violas and the bright, joyous violins and the perky flutes join in.  Then all those instruments start to modulate and somehow come back together and resolve and you start to hear that melody again and it captures you again.  Maybe that is what it is supposed to do – to make you appreciate and enjoy it when it finally comes back together.

I think David’s life is like that.  Everything is chaotic and seems to be in conflict with itself and life doesn’t make sense.  “How is this ever going to be resolved.  How will my life ever be comfortable again?”  Then something that David knew was right and true started to sound in his soul.  “But You are holy” (v. 3). He remembers what he knows to be true about God.

Holy is “set apart.” It means to be way above, totally different.  I think he is saying this – and these are my words, “You are infinitely superior to me and supreme over me.”  Then, the simple response to that is, “You can do anything You want.”  By ‘can’ I don’t mean have my permission, I mean ‘you have the right.”  If you are holy, if you are completely separate from me and superior to me and supreme over me, then You can do anything as God that you want or not do whatever you choose not to do.  You have the supreme, sovereign right to do that.

Then I think it means “pure.”  To be holy is to be pure.  “You are pure, You are flawless in Your character, in Your purposes and in Your acts.  Therefore, whatever You do is right and good, or whatever You choose not to do is also right and good.  You are infinitely superior to me, You are supreme over me, You can do anything You want.  You are pure and flawless, so whatever You do is right and good.”

You see, he redirected his concentration from what was happening around him, what he was seeing, what he was feeling, how it affected him, how it burdened him, what threatened him – which is our natural way of viewing life.  “How are you?”  The response is based on how you view life at that moment – what is happening to you and how it makes you feel.  “What are your prayer requests today?”  The response is usually what is bothering you or what is burdening you.  That is natural and not necessarily wrong.  But here he shifts his concentration from that to what he could not see and what he could not feel but what he knew to be true about God … “but You are holy.”

Musical Worship

There are several biblical components of worship which we are examining in our studies of God’s Word at Calvary.  Yesterday morning and evening we considered Musical Worship.  You can listen to the morning exposition of New Testament texts on musical worship here and the evening application to our church family here.

There are several New Testament texts that are descriptive of musical worship.  The New Testament prescriptive texts for musical worship include Ephesians 5:18-19 and Colossians 3:16.  We examined the prescriptive texts that give instruction to believers and the church regarding musical worship.

Principles based on these texts

 

The setting for musical worship (Eph. 5:18) is saved, Spirit-filled believers gathering on the Lord’s Day as well as at other times to recognize God’s worth and respond accordingly (worship).

Kinds of musical worship (Eph. 5:19) include vocal and instrumental, formal songs of praise as well as personal songs of testimony.  The Psalms provide a model of content (descriptions of God as well as individual experience of God’s work), language (lofty and exalted as well as intensely personal), and tone (formal as well as passionate).

The origin of musical worship should be your inner man, the source of your thoughts and emotion (Eph. 5:19 “in your heart” + 1 Corinthians 14:15 “with the spirit . . . with the understanding”).

The motivation for musical worship is your personal experience of and appreciation of the grace of God (Col. 3:16 – “in grace”).

The object of musical worship is, of course, God (Eph. 5:19 & Col. 3:16 – “to the Lord”).

Applications based on these principles

Christ-filled believers will worship with music.

Worshiping God with music is an outflow of being saved and under the influence of the Holy Spirit.  Christians will sing!

Both voices and instruments contribute to musical worship.

See Psalm 150.  Develop musical skills in order to contribute to the worship of God.

Variety in musical worship is right and good.

We endeavor to use music that contains a balance of theological and doctrinal content with personal and experiential testimony.  We use a hymnbook and we use PowerPoint to project words onto the screen so we can access and benefit from both old and new music not contained in our hymnbook.

What is spiritual in content should not be unspiritual in style and presentation.

Music can be worldly in sound or style because of its sensual appeal.  It can lead to wrong thoughts because it is associated with sinful practices.  It can be worldly because it is performed in a showy manner.  Each individual, family, and church must exercise wisdom and make decisions regarding their musical worship.  We don’t rock and roll at Calvary.

Mindless singing is not worship.

Engage your mind.  Develop your understanding of Scripture. Music leaders should help us with archaic language and unfamiliar biblical allusions, especially in older music, by explaining, updating, or eliminating them.

Musical worship should edify Christian brothers and sisters, not offend them.

We try to use music in public worship that reflects not only true doctrine and faithful practice, but also the character, culture, and conscience of our church family.  We will undoubtedly use music that some choose not to use personally, and we will not use music that some will use as individuals or families.  We should be gracious and accommodating in our attitudes toward one another when we differ.

Every believer is a participant in musical worship.

Everyone can participate.  Gifted and skilled musicians lead and present.  “Spiritual music comes from spiritual people; beautiful music comes from skilled people; poor musicianship clouds the message.”  (Clayton Erb)

Musical worship is not a performance but a presentation.

Hebrews 13:15  By him let us therefore offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name. Music is an offering to God.

Listen to the messages for more detailed explanation and application.  Comments welcome!

Take the Christian Test

2 Corinthians 12:20 – 13:9test

Listen to the entire message from Sunday morning, May 3 here.

Calling yourself a Christian does not make you one.  Sitting in church does not prove that you are going to Heaven.  Owning a Bible does not mean that you possess eternal life.  Your baptism certificate does not signify that you are born again.  There are people who say they are Christians and even people who think they are Christians who are not.  Today I want you to take the Christian test.

Let me summarize what Paul is saying in 2 Corinthians 12:20-13:9.  He is telling them that he is going to come and see them soon for the third time.  He says, “When I get there I want to find you in a good condition.  I want you to be in a condition that we can enjoy some time together.  I don’t want to have to confront problems when I come.  And there are some people among you who I have challenged already and I have sent messages to and told that you need to deal with the way that you are living and the way you are treating other people and the lifestyle that you have before I come.”  They were being immoral and they were being disruptive.  They were being critical of him and turning away from the teaching of the truth that he had given to them.  He said “There are some of you have continued doing this and when I come I will deal with you.”

He is not scolding them.  He is speaking to them with love but also with the authority God had given to him as an apostle.  He said he was coming in power and not weakness.  He said, “In light of the fact that some have continued sinning and I am coming, you need to take a good, hard look at yourselves because for some of you, the evidence indicates that there is a question about whether or not you are really Christians.”

I think that we, like they, need to take the Christian test.  If this confirms what you believe to be true about yourself, rejoice and praise God for that.  If this convicts you of what really is a need in your life, then I plead with you to take care of that.  I hope you will be open to whatever God wants to show you today.

  • Do you experience chronic conflict? (12:20)
    • Bickering and battling
    • Envy and resentment
    • Losing it, blowing up
    • Look at me, getting ahead, one-up
    • Accusing one person to another person
    • Spreading hurtful information
    • Self-importance
    • Disrupting unity, resisting authority.
  • Are you sexually impure? (12:21)
    • Habitual acts
    • Uncontrolled desire
  • What is your response when you are challenged?  (13:1-4)
  • What is your basic principle of life? (13:5)
    • Works or grace
      For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:  Not of works, lest any man should boast (Ephesians 2:8-9).
    • Seen or unseen
      Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen (Hebrews 11:1).
    • Self-will or submission
      And the word of God increased; and the number of the disciples multiplied in Jerusalem greatly; and a great company of the priests were obedient to the faith (Acts 6:7).
  • Is Jesus Christ in you? (13:5)
    • Galatians 2:20
      I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.

The wonderful thing is

  • It is possible to know if you are a Christian.

This is not something beyond possibility.  You can know that you are a Christian.  My burden is not to raise doubts unnecessarily but to plead with you to be sure.  If you have a question about it, I can’t tell you that you are saved or not.  However, I can take you to truth and concrete, definite statements from God that will help you either to be sure or to make sure.  I hope you will.

  • It is possible to be restored to unity and harmony.

We recognize that Christians do fail, Christians do fall.  Christians are weak; Christians struggle.  Note again 2 Corinthians 13:9 “… and this also we wish, even your perfection.”  He was not talking about being sinless.  This word “perfection” means to be restored.  It was used of mending torn fishing nets; it was used of setting and the healing of broken bones; it was used of refitting and refinishing worn ships returning from months at sea.  This is what God does for us – He restores us.  He wants to restore you.  He wants to restore the unity and harmony in your life.  If you are having a problem with conflict, He wants to help you resolve those issues as much as within your power.

  • It is possible to be restored to wholeness and usefulness.

If there are problems with impurity, other sins which have defiled your life, He can cleanse you and make you whole and put you to work and see you bear fruit for Him.

I cannot tell you whether or not you are a Christian.  God can and will.  Ask God to show you what is right and true.  If He convicts you of your need to become a Christian, repent of your sin and believe on Jesus Christ.  If he confirms to you that you are a believer, rejoice and be blessed and thank God for that.